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Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ
Stay in Touch Sign up. We now speak of multiple intelligences , seeing them as a skills set. We might be born with a tendency to some intelligences over others, but these are shaped by enviromental factors and can be influenced through learning, rather than something neurologically innate. I'm willing to accept the idea that people are born with a range of abilities to recognize and respond to emotional interaction.
I think these emotional responses are learned behaviors to a much greater degree than Goleman would allow. The problem with books like Goleman's is that it presents one side of a very contentious debate, but it might be the only book on the subject many people will read.
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AmiraSalah rated it it was amazing. Apr 30, Kristl rated it liked it Recommends it for: anyone who throws things when angry or doesn't cry, ever. I had to read this book for a leadership academy I was in and I found this to be a surprisingly good experience.
Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ by Daniel Goleman
The book introduces and explains the concept of "emotional intelligence," which, since beginning to read the book, I see is so much more important than almost any other awareness one could have on a day-to-day basis personally and professionally. Don't be shocked, if, in describing the many levels of emotional intelligence or lack thereof, you immediately think o I had to read this book for a leadership academy I was in and I found this to be a surprisingly good experience. Don't be shocked, if, in describing the many levels of emotional intelligence or lack thereof, you immediately think of friends, family, and coworkers that fit these personality types exactly.
Once you begin to understand the makings of emotion and how different temperaments react to the varying levels of emotion, problems of all sorts seem to make more sense than ever before.
The book is laid out into easily-digested chapters which the readers can pick and choose through based on their interests in the subject brain chemistry? It will be a better world when emotional intelligence or "EQ" is regarded as much or more than intelligence in deciding the viability of leaders at all levels and in all segments of any organization. I think the best part of the book is when he explained about the five major components of the emotional intelligence as: 1.
Self-awareness: Recognize and understand your own moods and motivations and their effect on others. To achieve this state, you must be able to monitor your own emotional state and identify your own emotions. Emotional Maturity in this trait shows: -Confidence -Sense of humor can laugh at self -Aware of your impression on others can read the reac I think the best part of the book is when he explained about the five major components of the emotional intelligence as: 1. Emotional Maturity in this trait shows: -Confidence -Sense of humor can laugh at self -Aware of your impression on others can read the reactions of others to know how you are perceived 2.
Self-Regulation: Controlling your impulses—instead of being quick to react rashly, you can reign in your emotions and think before responding. You express yourself appropriately. You respond in a manner which would not escalate the situation. Internal Motivation: Internal motivation is marked by an interest in learning.
It is also self-improvement vs. Emotional Maturity in this trait shows: -Initiative and the commitment to complete a task -Perseverance in the face of adversity 4. This is only possible when one has achieved self-awareness—as one cannot understand others until they understand themselves. Social Skills: Identifying social cues to establish common ground, manage relationships and build networks. Emotional Maturity in this trait shows: -Communication: Listening and responding appropriately -Influence and Leadership: The ability to guide and inspire others -Conflict Management: The ability to diffuse difficult situations using persuasion and negotiation.
I read this years ago - the reading date of is entirely arbitrary and I'm writing this at the end of I remember the essential messages vividly, especially his discussion of why emotional thresholds differ, and the importance of counting to 10 to let the rational brain kick in over the primitive amygdala response. A good deep breath goes a long way.
I love the concept of emotional intelligence - very useful in dealing with others.follow url
Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ
Aug 15, Gage marked it as to-read. If you're like me, you're extremely leery of anything that reeks of pop psychology. But Emotional Intelligence has no such odor. First, author Daniel Goleman is the real deal. He has his PhD, of course, as do many snake oil salesmen, but unlike these others, Goleman has academic street cred: he founded an institute at Yale, heads up another at Rutgers, and wrote science columns for the New York Times.
At first glance, I can see that this book, though written more than 10 years ago, still packs a punch. We If you're like me, you're extremely leery of anything that reeks of pop psychology. We still live in a world, after all, of road rage and horrific, random violence. From my brief inspection, it appears that Goleman describes how the emotional mind is just as important as the rational mind.
Its short, pithy chapters are full of anecdotes.
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But be patient: it is packed with science. This is good, in case you want to get deeper into the subject. Somebody needs to tell him to update his mugshot or lose the fro. Shelves: psychology , nonfiction , , science. When you're good with people and also a good speaker , you reach leadership level positions much faster. Seems obvious, yeah? Well, this book was written in the early s, and while it's been revised and updated since then, the information has been repeated so many times, it's nearly common knowledge by now.
Forgot to clarify this look at executives and their peers is only a small part of the book. What I was interested, but sadly wasn't addressed head-on, was whether or not emotional intelligence is innate. There's a lot of talk about brain chemistry and the evolution of the brain, yet no discernible answer as to the innateness of this type of intelligence. I get the impression the author thinks it can be taught--he does call it intelligence after all--but can it though? Don't you need a certain innate temperament to learn it?
I mean, if you don't like people, that can certainly hamper the process. This is a good textbook overall and an easy read as it was written for the general public. Lots of concrete, ripped-from-the-headlines scenarios are used and dissected. So for me, there was a lot of "fluff" for lack of a better word to wade through before I found something interesting. However, people who don't have a background in psychology or are unfamiliar with it altogether will find this book a great introduction to contemporary theories.
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Oct 05, Katja rated it really liked it. Emotional Intelligence produced such conflicting feelings in me that I am torn as to what to write about it. For the most part, it is well-written, intelligent and compelling.
On some level I think Daniel Goleman and I think in much the same way, and even though the book is 15 years old now, on the whole it is as applicable as it ever was. Secondly — and this is what really disappointed me - at several points throughout the book, he does one of the WORST possible things a non-fiction writer can do: he catastrophises.
He cites a study that found children in their teenage years are more moody, secretive and irritable than when they were children — and uses that to support an argument that people are getting unhappier across the lifespan really?
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What makes the doomsday predictions particularly embarrassing is the statistics he cites regarding rising violence and cocaine use, stating expert predictions that violent crime among the young would increase drastically in the years to come. I know that most of this review is an angry rant, but I've still given it four stars because I chose to be reasonable and not let those things be deal-breakers.
I really did enjoy the vast majority of this book. Sep 10, Thomas rated it really liked it Shelves: nonfiction , psychology. A great book that delves into the science behind emotional intelligence, the components that comprise the trait, and the practical applications of possessing EI.